I’m Emma Ottenhoff, a neurodivergent therapist who works with deeply feeling children, teens, and adults. My work is grounded in connection, authenticity, and a neurodiversity-affirming lens.
I offer relational and experiential therapy for clients who have felt misunderstood, overwhelmed, or like traditional therapy hasn’t quite fit.
I don’t see neurodivergence as something to fix. Instead, I help clients build self-understanding, skills, and confidence to navigate their lives with greater clarity, compassion, and choice. My goal is to support people in moving out of survival mode and toward a life guided by their values, needs, and authentic selves.
My approach is relational, experiential, and deeply neurodiversity-affirming. I prioritize emotional safety, collaboration, and authenticity, adapting therapy to each client’s needs rather than forcing them into a one-size-fits-all model. I honor neurodivergence as a natural variation of human experience while supporting clients in building skills, self-understanding, and confidence to navigate an imperfect world with greater ease and intention.
I recognize that many challenges clients face are shaped by broader social, cultural, and institutional systems, not personal failure, and I support clients in building skills, self-understanding, and agency as they navigate an imperfect world.
Extensive experience supporting children, teens, and adults navigating anxiety, shame, perfectionism, high emotional intensity, and periods of self-harm.
As a Certified Clinical Adventure Therapist, I integrate experiential approaches that support insight, regulation, and real-life skill building.
I work from a neurodivergent-affirming lens, honoring authentic ways of thinking, feeling, and relating rather than pathologizing difference.